I Will Surely Show You Kindness!

 “So David said to him, “Do not fear, for I will surely show you kindness for Jonathan your father’s sake, and will restore to you all the land of Saul your grandfather; and you shall eat bread at my table continually.” II Samuel 9:7  

💛 When leadership becomes about competition instead of covering, when titles matter more than souls, and when insecurity replaces discipleship, isolation is the fruit. Many leaders are lonely not because God abandoned them—but because relationships were sacrificed on the altar of control. We must ask the sobering question: What will happen when Jesus returns? Will He find leaders who protected their platforms—or shepherds who protected His people?

Will He see women who guarded their influence—or spiritual mothers who poured themselves out? Will He say, “Well done, good and faithful servant,” or “Why did you scatter what I entrusted to you?” Jesus warned that many would say, “Lord, Lord,” yet miss His heart (Matthew 7:21–23). He is not returning for impressive ministries—He is returning for faithful ones. He is not counting followers; He is examining fruit. If competition is allowed to replace compassion, the church will continue to wound those it was meant to heal. But if repentance restores our vision, the church can once again become a refuge instead of a proving ground. There is still time. May we lay down comparison before it costs us connection. May we choose legacy over spotlight. And may we be found lifting others when the King returns—not standing alone, wondering where everyone went. This is one of the reasons so many pastors are walking alone today. The kingdom of God was never built through rivalry.

By His grace, I survived what should have broken me. And today, I see the same pattern repeating. Grace met brokenness at the table. The church must become one again. The answer is repentant leadership and courageous mentorship. The next generation does not need flawless women; they need available, humble, prayerful ones. May we never be the reason a woman stop going to church. Lets be the women who lift carefully, speak truth lovingly, and guard what God entrusts to us. And may no woman have to say again, “I left the church, I was betrayed in the house of the Lord.”

Prayer: 🙏
Father God! I pray 2026 will start the change with myself and my daughter. We ask for a breakthrough. Let us never be indifferent to any other young girl or woman. Help us heal. Help us restore. Father God Please forgive us! Help us again become the Church. Help us Love as you Love. Help us be the humble mentor. Lord, heal the wounds caused by silence and neglect. Forgive us where we have failed to lift others. Make us spiritual mothers who protect, guide, and nurture what You are birthing in this generation. Amen.